We have a funny language. I think our communication would be clearer and more concise if we had clear expectations of what our words mean when we say them. I know that we have had the “word” police in the past but as effective as these police people were, as passionate as they always seemed to be, after all every one of these police were unpaid volunteers, their efforts went for not.
Often times, I think that if we had fewer words or had actually come up with our own language instead of stealing words and phrases from every other language in the world, we would have an easier time of it.
I was having coffee with a friend of mine today, I will call her Lindsey, anyway, Lindsey was telling me about her day, which really does seem to be a vital part of any counseling session, and she said, “The things that we are doing will ‘dramastically’ impact us in a good way.”
I looked at her and said, “Dramastically? Is that a combination of dramatically and fantastically?”
She just looked at me, smiled, and said, “Yes.”
So often, when we talk with one another we use terms and phrases that others may not understand.
There is an old saying that goes like this, “Listen with the intent to listen and not the intent to respond.”
There is another old saying that goes like this, “Speak with the intent of being understood and not merely heard.”
I am not really a fan of the word police. As efficient as our language could be if we cut down on the “new” words, it sure would not be as much fun. I never would have learned the word “dramastically” or had the opportunity to use it in a sentence.
I will remember though, as I go through my day and talk with people, to speak with the intent of being understood and not merely heard. I will listen with the intent to listen and not with the intent to respond.
If my job is to present the Good News to people, I better make sure that I am communicating well.